In an effort to affect change, here’s my attempt at trying to provide you with the thoughts, complaints and compliments about the steppin’ world. Today, I will focus on the women’s concerns and comments. Fellas don’t worry….you will get your turn tomorrow.
Top 5 List of Things Women Love:
1. Men who smell like some sort of designer cologne or light fragrant oil on the dance floor.
2. Men who dance them and make them feel like they are the most desired woman on the dance floor.
3. DJs that play mellow tempo music as opposed to 15 minute multi mixes.
4. Watching seasoned steppers do their “thing” on the dance floor.
5. Men who can dance just as well as women can without doing 25 combinations and spins back to back for an entire song.
1. Men who smell like some sort of designer cologne or light fragrant oil on the dance floor.
2. Men who dance them and make them feel like they are the most desired woman on the dance floor.
3. DJs that play mellow tempo music as opposed to 15 minute multi mixes.
4. Watching seasoned steppers do their “thing” on the dance floor.
5. Men who can dance just as well as women can without doing 25 combinations and spins back to back for an entire song.
Top 10 List of Things Women Complain About:
1. Men who know that they sweat but will not carry an extra t-shirt or undershirt to a set and allow their bodily fluids to leak onto the woman they are dancing with. In addition, they carry their sweat towels with them onto the dance floor and let the cold, wet towel touch different parts of their arm.
2. Heavy Hitter or “up and coming” men who only dance with their favorite female steppers all night long while making other women feel inferior.
3. Men who mess up dance moves and blame and argue with the woman on the floor instead of saying “Oops…my bad.” By that same token, men who turn into “dance floor instructors.”
4. Men that bring “sand to the beach.” i.e. bringing significant others to the sets decrease the amount of dances a woman would normally get with those guys.
5. The same men trying to pick them up at the set….over and over again!
6. Men who believe they are Heavy Hitters in THEIR MINDS but won’t try to work on their dance by watching other HEAVY HITTERS or traveling out of their city to watch more males step in Chicago. These men are being called “NO HITTERS.”
7. Women and men that come over and gossip about others while they are at the set.
8. Men who dance with a woman for three or more dances and won’t OFFER to buy her a glass or bottle of ice water afterwards.
9. Men who do dance moves that are designed to allow them to feel on women’s buttocks or chest areas.
10. Men who ask women to dance and if the woman has just gotten off of the dance floor out of breath, sweaty and exhausted and they say “Not right now but can I get the next dance?”…the man gets offended and puts them on dance punishment for a month or so.
1. Men who know that they sweat but will not carry an extra t-shirt or undershirt to a set and allow their bodily fluids to leak onto the woman they are dancing with. In addition, they carry their sweat towels with them onto the dance floor and let the cold, wet towel touch different parts of their arm.
2. Heavy Hitter or “up and coming” men who only dance with their favorite female steppers all night long while making other women feel inferior.
3. Men who mess up dance moves and blame and argue with the woman on the floor instead of saying “Oops…my bad.” By that same token, men who turn into “dance floor instructors.”
4. Men that bring “sand to the beach.” i.e. bringing significant others to the sets decrease the amount of dances a woman would normally get with those guys.
5. The same men trying to pick them up at the set….over and over again!
6. Men who believe they are Heavy Hitters in THEIR MINDS but won’t try to work on their dance by watching other HEAVY HITTERS or traveling out of their city to watch more males step in Chicago. These men are being called “NO HITTERS.”
7. Women and men that come over and gossip about others while they are at the set.
8. Men who dance with a woman for three or more dances and won’t OFFER to buy her a glass or bottle of ice water afterwards.
9. Men who do dance moves that are designed to allow them to feel on women’s buttocks or chest areas.
10. Men who ask women to dance and if the woman has just gotten off of the dance floor out of breath, sweaty and exhausted and they say “Not right now but can I get the next dance?”…the man gets offended and puts them on dance punishment for a month or so.
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